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What You Need to Know

Sexting, or sharing sexually explicit content digitally, has become a growing concern among teens, with significant emotional, psychological, and legal risks. Many teens, influenced by peer pressure or curiosity, engage in sexting without fully understanding the consequences. These include:

  • Legal Consequences: Teens can face criminal charges if explicit images are shared, even with consent, as it can be considered child pornography.
  • Emotional and Psychological Impacts: Sexting can lead to shame, bullying, isolation, and long-term emotional distress.
  • Irreversibility of Digital Sharing: Once shared, explicit content can be saved, copied, and circulated, making it impossible to fully control its distribution.

 

In addition to the risks of sexting, there is the danger of online predators creating fake profiles on social media, often posing as someone of the opposite gender to gain your teen’s trust. Once your child accepts their friend request, the predator will engage in conversation, building a fake relationship until they eventually ask for explicit photos. After receiving these images, the predator may threaten to share them with friends or family unless the child pays a sum of money, engaging in blackmail.

The most effective way to protect your teen from these dangers is to NEVER send explicit photos altogether.

What You Should Do

  • Start Early and Be Proactive: Have open conversations about online safety, respect, and the risks of sexting before incidents occur.
  • Create a Judgment-Free Zone: Approach the topic with empathy to foster trust and encourage open dialogue.
  • Use Real-Life Examples: Discuss news stories or scenarios that highlight the serious consequences of sexting.
  • Teach Consent and Boundaries: Reinforce the importance of privacy and respect for others’ boundaries, emphasizing that no one should be pressured into sending explicit content.
  • Highlight Legal Risks: Explain the legal consequences of sexting in an age-appropriate manner to ensure teens understand the gravity of their actions.
  • Strengthen Privacy Settings: Help your teen set up privacy settings on social media and devices to limit exposure to inappropriate content.
  • Encourage Critical Thinking: Teach the “pause before you send” principle, reminding them that anything shared online could potentially become public.
  • Foster Healthy Online Relationships: Help teens recognize signs of unhealthy interactions or pressure to send explicit content.
  • Monitor Online Activity: Consider using monitoring apps but communicate openly about their use to maintain transparency and trust.
  • Address Sextortion: Educate teens about the risks of sextortion and encourage them to report any suspicious online behavior immediately.

Not sure you’re doing enough to protect your child against digital dangers?
Call our cyber parenting hotline or email us for help:
801-692-6200
cyberparentinghelp@invisus.com